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Showing posts with label Birthdays. Show all posts
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Sunday, April 12, 2009

Happy Birthday, Momma!


Taylor and Momma making funny faces last July... in Orange Beach, AL

(Given the green shirt and pop eyes... We call this her Froggy face!)

Momma with Brittany ....Also in Orange Beach, AL.
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She's a good sport... The original Chef, chief cook and bottle washer, custodian of the family records, accountant and financial wizard, chauffer or cab driver (whichever is required), laundress, housekeeper, teacher, spiritual advisor, counselor, first-aid provider, referee, negotiator, guardian, boy repellant, lover, wife, mother, aunt, sister, daughter, friend, volunteer, and Child of God. (My father actually wrote this on a loan application once to describe the various duties of a SAHM... :O)))
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When my father retired from his more than three decades of service to the FAA, his co-workers honored not only my father, but also my mother with a rocking chair for their golden years... Why? Well, because my mother was literally "the wind beneath my father's wings."
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She assisted him in a home-building project that took the better part of my childhood and is still not quite complete. She fell eleven years ago and suffered an injury that would have permanently crippled a lesser woman... But, not my momma... She is a trooper and then some. She spends every Saturday with her sisters, makes special trips to see her grandchildren and cried as she expressed unconditional support for my Brittany who moves out on her own in AUGUST. OH MY! I drove her and my aunts to TJ Maxx one afternoon and my momma bought me everything I looked at with an admiring eye just because she wanted to say, "I Love You." All of this and she kept up the Laundry, took care of three children, hauled around any number of strange men who were my dad's hired hands. Said, "Ted, you're going to kill yourself doing that..." As my father did some herculean task while building the house - very nearly by himself a million times over in the six years it took for us to move in.
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I gave her flowers for her birthday last night... And, she showed up tonight, for dinner at Red Lobster, with her flowers in tow! When I cleaned her house at Christmas she refused to take a seat and enjoy the luxury of being served! She had to join right in saying, "I can do this myself... It just takes me longer."
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I responded, "I'm not doing this because I think you can't... I'm doing this because I think you shouldn't!"
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To which she said, "Okay." And sat down playing Christmas music and visiting with me while I worked. She can cook for an army of many and it is the tastiest comfort food around. Everything I learned about being a mom I owe to her. Everything I have ever known about God started with songs she sang to me as a child. She reads her Bible everyday and has read it through many times over. The other day she told me, "I was reading James the other day. You should read James... That's it. It's all in there. Just read it."
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OKAY, MOMMA! I think when I finish reading John I'm going to read James... Why? Because Momma said so. :o)
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She was with me when my babies came into this world and helped me take care of them most of their young lives. She wept for her own loss when Justin died, but cried harder when she considered mine. We have laughed together, cried together, gone to "war" together, prayed together, hoped together, shared life together... She is my momma and I love her so much. Happy Birthday Momma from your little girl.
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She is 64 years young today... She loves. She laughs. She lives. She shines. She smiles. She hopes. She dreams. She graces. She gives. She goes. She supports. She encourages. She exhorts. She never gives up. She prays. She blesses us all.
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Her children rise up
and call her blessed
(happy, fortunate,
and to be envied);
and her husband boasts
of and praises her,
[saying], many daughters
have done virtuously,
nobly, and well
[with the strength
of character
that is steadfast in goodness],
but you excel them all.
Charm and grace are deceptive,
and beauty is vain
[because it is not lasting],
but a woman who reverently
and worshipfully fears the Lord,
she shall be praised!
Give her of the fruit of her hands,
and let her own works praise her
in the gates [of the city]!
Proverbs 31:28-31 (AMP)






Wednesday, March 11, 2009

"Imagine All The Trouble I Would've Gotten Into..."



Last Friday morning I called hubs for the usual "On My Way To Drop Off Taylor At School" call when he said, "Hey, what do you think about Dinner and a Movie tonight?"
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A "his idea..." He asked me out on a date night! WOO HOO!
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I spent some time finding and buying tickets to the movie by phone that morning before running errands and hustling home to get a shower and pick out an outfit for the evening.
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(((YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT MY FRIDAYS LOOK LIKE! RUN. RUN. RUN. All. Day. Long.)))
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Which I did. I picked him up from work needing to "Up the Do" and put on my make-up... but I was officially dressed for our night out. He picked the restaurant and I picked the movie. We were going to see "Taken" with Liam Neeson (which BTW deserves a blog post all its own). We were out of the house in record time for Friday night.
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A slight detour by the movie theater as we walked to the restaurant (RAZZOOs. Aiy-eeeh!) And I discovered that the phone system haphazardly sold me a ticket to see a movie three days before while I was ordering the tickets for "Taken."
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So we returned the tickets and asked them why they charged us for three tickets. We got a refund on all three tickets and the fee for phone ordering --- AND we got the tickets to our movie. The manager told us worst case the system would re-charge us for the two tickets we purchased, and best case is we get to see the movie for free! BONUS. I told him if they were taking reviews for the phone system - "THUMBS DOWN!"
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Dinner was really great! I had Louisiana Bread Pudding which is one of my favorite Desserts. And, we went to Barnes and Noble* and he bought me a book called "Jewish Literacy." I am sitting in a huge overstuffed chair near the religious section holding a book with about 1,000 Sudoku puzzles and this book on Jewish literacy by Rabbi Joseph Telushkin when my husband walks up.
I said, "I really want this book."
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I held up both of the books. "But, I can't really decide which I want more."
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He smiled. "It's up to you."
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I weighed the two books. "Jewish Literacy it is."
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We both walked down the stairs and he picked up the new book by Stephen R. Lawhead he had been eyeing ("TUCK") and we were off to cash out. With our purchases in tow we trotted around the corner to the movie theater and saw our (a little extreme in the violence department) movie, but such a great story. I give the movie a good review with a violence warning on it. There is a theme of prostitution, drugs and human trafficking in this movie - But, parents with older teenage girls need to take their daughters to see this movie because it is very sobering to consider the risk our kids are at and the way they are seen as targets. (end of movie review)
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On the way home we drove through our prodigal stomping grounds. The Fort Worth Stockyards.
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I spotted a marquee advertising, "Bikini Contest Monday Nights."
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I asked my husband, "How is that different than strippers?"
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He said, "It's not."
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We talked about his days of "sowing wild oats," when - shocking, I know - he frequented strip clubs where his classmates from school worked. (Fortunately, I knew this already. AND, BTW his past just might pale in comparison with mine.) Anyway... I asked him when he stopped visiting those places and we talked about his first marriage. When he said, "I guess it was 1989 because I turned 21 that year."
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We were eerily close to the cemetery where Justin's earthly body rests and I suddenly realized my son and my husband are exactly 20 years different in age. Scott born in 1968 and Justin in 1988. I then began to think of all the things a 21 year old might be doing. What I would hope Justin would be doing and the tears began to fall. We stopped in at Sonic* for a soft drink when my hubs noticed my tears.
"Did I say something wrong?"
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I shook my head.
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"Just thinking about Jay."
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He gently took my hand and said, "I know his birthday is Wednesday."
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"Well, it is his birthday because he'd be 21. He's buried over there and when you said you were 21 in 1989 well, i just realized you were born exactly 20 years apart."
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For those who don't know the story: Justin was born illegitimate when I was 17 years old. His dad abandoned us shortly after I learned I was pregnant and well my dad came a hair's width away from prosecuting the father for statutory rape...
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My husband's next statement was thoughtful, surprising and a little funny to me.
"Imagine all the trouble I would've gotten into if I'd have known you then."
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I realized that was the first moment he talked about our past in a "what if" fashion... and that was sorta' good.
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"Well... at the very least you would have been Justin's dad and that would not have been any trouble at all."
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We both laughed and realized once again how lucky we are to have found each other.
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I admitted: "But... there is a chance that you wouldn't have liked me very much back then."
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"True." (Come to think of it... I don't know how I feel about that! Just kidding... I might not have liked him either.)
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"I guess things worked out the way they were supposed to... But, I still think if my parents would not have moved to Granbury - we'd have met much sooner." [BIG SMILE.]
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It was a really good night.
NOTE: I have a more recent (as in the last month) picture I wanted to share but it is locked up in my dear daughter's computer... She is napping and was to bothered to let me tranfer it to my computer. IMAGINE!





Happy Birthday to You!



Justin, February 2005 with His Sister, Brittany at Planet Wisdom Conference
He was just a few weeks from his 17th Birthday.

Justin, age 15 months old. June 1989
20 years ago


At our wedding in June 1998.
He ALWAYS caught the garter at every wedding he attended.
Not even kidding... The boy saved many a bachelor from his girlfriend's marriage minded eye.

Justin, at my brother, Jef's Graduation.
Age 15 months. June 1989. I just love this picture.

Justin Brant Newsom, born March 11, 1988 at 1:42 PM.
8 lbs. 6 oz. 20 1/2 in. long. He was my "monster baby."
As in when he awoke from a nap at 15 months old he would stand at his playpin rail and growl. I would then enter the room and say, "Where's my monster baby?"
And he would growl again and then we would both giggle.


May the Lord watch between me and thee while we must be apart. I miss you, big boy!